Hi all, had been following this thread since I have join SBF. This thread caught my attention as I am also searching for an answer. Now I believed I am not just one of the unfortunate, envy those bros here who still enjoyed great sex with wife. Wondering when will be mine?
Just a quick intro of my story, known her ard 2years. We had great sex life before marriage. Tried everything expect back door. Hehe still remembering the moment back in my mind.
After that got married And have kids, things totally changed! Just like married to another girl! No kissing, hugging and seldom have sex. Just like a stranger! Plus bought A dozen of condom also can't finish in a year. Expired Liao still got to heart pain pain and throw away. Sign
Asked her why, she said tired, stress over kids, finance stress, no time, not interested in sex, why am I comparing with newly wed and young couples we are in a diff stage of life! All the etc....crap reasons!
She had no time for me But willing to wake up early Or turn in late to update blogs and chat with forum mummies and her mum for kids stuffs.
Every time, asked her tonight can have love making session, she replied, I never promise you tonight can do leh. Wah, need to booked appointment! Sian Liao. Ask again how or what I must do in order to have a session? She said, unless I do all house work. Cos few years back we had a maid but now no more. Dun say I never do hor, I also help her when I can. Hehe So is my wife using reward basis to reward me to a session?? I don't understand.
Spoke to her and had a heart to heart talk.i told her She had neglected me. I asked her do you still have feelings for me, she answered, is more used to have me ard rather than feelings for me. I told something is wrong with our relationship and she insisted nothing is wrong with our relationship and problems dun lies on her, problems lies on me.
she said she will TRY to make the effort to improve but before and after chat seems no diff except that day heart to heart chat. Hehe earn a great love making session.
Sign.....I felt lost, I had been enduring almost 10yrs. Without sufficient sex and all I can is just watch porn and pcc.
We are in our early 30s. Was hoping that when she reach mid 30s, miracle will happen. Every time think back, why? Why this will happen to me.
I very stress Liao, Thou of going to the worst case but like bros here mention, disadvantage in our finance side and also for the sake of kids. Stress level very high Liao, every night hugged loneliness to sleep.
didn't I contribute as much as her? Bring money home, be their driver, house chores, whatever She request, I always say "ok", "no prob" but this is what I get and deserve.
Sorry for my long boring sour story from my bottom of my heart.just got rejected 1 hr ago that's why to depress......cheers bros! Good night.