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Originally Posted by Ah Goo
Finally a brother understood me.
If want to eat out, can eat out even in a good marriage.
Some girls just don't think that sex is necessary.
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Ah Goo:
Do you have kids? If not, get a divorce immediately. Don't put up with that shit. Refusal of sexual intercourse without a valid reason is grounds for divorce, full stop.
Taisho, I hear yah and feel your pain man. This is a Singaporean female thing, have kids can ignore hubby. If I were you, mention divorce just to see her reaction. Go here:
http://www.divorce.com.sg/page2.html
paragraph 4, "reluctance to engage in sexual intercourse" is grounds for divorce. You have kids so its complicated but just toss the "D" word out to see how she reacts. Sometimes women need to be threatened. Also, you might want to explain to her that marriage is a societal contract in which she consents to have sex with you. You could rape her and there is nothing she or the police can or will do about it since you are married. The marriage license is her consent to have sex with you, its that simple. I had the same chats with my wife several times and she has come around. Use the "D" word and explain the rape angle.....it helps for them to have the cold water or reality poured over them from time to time.
Good luck.
Cheers,
jim