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Old 01-03-2011, 01:51 AM
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Re: Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

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Originally Posted by submarine View Post
Hi fellow brothers,

Firstly, I would like to thank McWoof for providing me with Kimmie's contact. I SMSed her and we corresponded a few times. However those few SMSes which she replied was enough to give me a hint that she was only into femdom for the money. What striked me was her unprofessionalism, which was evident even in her SMS. It seems that she is of the impression she gets the right to do whatever she wants and wear whatever she feels like, simply because we are her slaves.

I think a domme can do this if she is a proven lifestyle domme who is extremely experienced and who already gets rave reviews from fellow slaves. However, for someone who is inexperienced and who is only into this game for the money, she really ought to be given a rude awakening.

Just as I have expected, Bro Micky_Blues has had a terrible session with her and I have to fully agree that its money down the drain. Even with the strong yen now, it is possible to get a drop dead gorgeous Japanese dominatrix who caters to your every request and needs for SGD 400. That's for 60 mins, which only starts when both of you are ready and have changed into the desired outfits.

Sadly, local dominatrixes, with the exception of the odd few (e.g. Maxin, Len and Minky), offer very poor service. Even the PRC ones I have tried (2 so far) are at least 3-4 times better in terms of service and attitude. Sadly, they seem to have left our shores and I am unable to contact them. One of them, Wu Ze Tian, have sessioned about 3 times with me and each time, it was a happy and memorable experience. Some bros have asked me for her contact, but her old number is no longer in use and I myself have yet to be able to contact her.

I hope Kimmie reads her own reviews here and improves. I have seen enough to be able to sieve the genuine dominatrixes from the wannabes. Frankly, as long as she shows she's willing to learn and gives the right attitude, I am sure none of us here would mind teaching them a thing or two about male domination. However, if she is simply here to earn our money knowing that demand outstrips supply, then I am so sorry but these girls can continue their daytime dreams.

Just my two cents...
Bro submarine, it is sad but true that there is currently no minimum standard imposed on dominatrix in Singapore. While there is nothing wrong with a dominatrix charging a tribute for her services, not listening to what her client want and instead, insisting to have her way, be it her attire or activities she prefers, shows that she does not respect her client who is paying her good money.

I have to say that the email correspondences plays a very important part in deciding whether the dominatrix is worth meeting. For dominatrix who cannot be bothered to read your email and reply via one-liners, this is a very bad sign. While I am pretty sure that they get many emails and some of these emails might not materialise in actual sessions, they still have to take the effort to treat each email seriously.

Perhaps I should amend my list of 18 dominatrix to "Worth Trying" and "Dun Bother"?