thats the reason y so many sg guys fall in love madly with WL from all over the places - GL, HC, KTV, dirty pubs etc. due to the accumulated lack of GFE back home, a guy can easily lose his big head and falls in love even with a plainjane looking WL who gives him the much needed sex and GFE, so much so that one can volunteer to be a KC victim willingly and starts living in a dream, hoping that the dream is real and he will never need to wake up from it to face the reality.