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Originally Posted by haojian

Shortly after giving birth to my daughter, she started slimming down and making up to look even better than before our marriage. and she mentioned before during our arguments that she is young and can look for another husband. I can divorce her and pay her alimony and expenses for the children. Now she is asking for more money, even borrowing from my mum. She also mentioned buying and selling land in vietnam.

What should I do? Please advise.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

the basic problem of marriage and having children.
when just married, its lovey dovey. after some times, have children in order to have a new meaning of marriage (family). when the child is born, both give more attention to the children and forget the lovely part of the marriage....

so i think you should try to make her love you again.

The abovementioned post by KT is the best advice so far He is right regardless of nationality this same problem may occur especially after the children are born and the wife/husband loses interest in being intimate and thus drifted apart.

How we know........well some of us have already gone thru some parts of it in different ways and now we are enjoying our 2nd Puberty

If u do really care, try to woo her again, tho it sounds like TV drama...

Cheerios.....SS08 ^_^