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Originally Posted by calbts
. . . . Yes my advice to all going to the US is to avoid sex/bdsm services altogther. High prices - low value - teasing galore - and very few hotties.
Go to the US to enjoy the food and sights. In fact, that is mainly what I miss -the food.
If you want to experience a Western Domina go to Germany or Holland.
And it goes without saying if you want to experience the best and most beautiful Mistresses - go to Japan.
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Agree with MOST of what you say Bro Calbts - esp about Germany or Holland, and of course Japan

. But there are some great Dommes around in US - just a little hard to find on a short visit.
For sure the "legitimate" BDSM houses are a waste of time and frustrating - they are closely regulated and monitored.
You gotta find the independents or private groups for the real deal, and there are lots. Collarme, or "Backpage.com" lists a bunch of FL'rs. But those are not always reliable, so it does take time and trying a few out to gain trust (anything of sexual nature is illegal, so do not ask on the phone). Difficult on a short trip.
But surely avoid the advertised houses if you are looking for nudity or sexual anything.
Vann