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Originally Posted by naemlo
There r 2 groups of cheongsters in SBF. 1 group can accept gf or wife to be WL before and another can't. 1 of the common reasons why they accept WL is " she is different from other WL"  |
to each his own....
end of the day, I have been to vietnam and I have spend a lot of time around them. as hard as it may, its not easy to find job in vn, even if you do, the pay is dirt low, enough for food and lodging and little else left over.
leave it to fate, you never know, in the past I will also not accept someone like that which is why I only F&F but never got too involved till I got to know my ex-wife. though its over but its partly my fault as I never stop engaging other girls, she kept mum to my ways till the final draw came and we parted amicably. we are still friends and we meet for coffee regularly. she has moved on and have someone whom treats her well. I have met the new man in her life and we are on good terms too.
unless we ourselves are saint, then don't expect others to be one too.....
I remember once in vietnam, i was talking to a mama-san and I told her to find me a good wife jokingly. her reply was the key is to find someone who truly loves you, whether she's a WL or a good girl, its still the same as we are all vietnamese in heart.
So out of the many I knew, only that 4 managed to steal my heart so fellow samsters go on and have fun but keep your filters sharp. I have filtered many to find the few good ones.