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New attitude
Fortunately in 2011, most medics have a very different attitude.
This is largely because they're now familiar with the results of sexual studies conducted by American researchers Kinsey, Masters and Johnson, Shere Hite and others.
In addition, the last 20 years have seen a number of sexual surveys conducted with large samples of people through newspapers and magazines. Indeed, the Medical Information Service – has designed many of these.
The results of these surveys have taken the lid off the sex life of the great British public.
Now we know that virtually
any woman can climax – and indeed have
multiple climaxes – if the circumstances of her life are right. And these circumstances usually include having a
caring, understanding partner who's knowledgeable about sex and who uses that knowledge to help her relax and to reach orgasm.
As we've already said, orgasm is a much more automatic response for men than it is for women. And it would be true to say that in very many males an ability to climax doesn't necessarily have to be linked to feelings of love and romance.
But women more commonly find that their sexual confidence and competence blossoms when they feel loved and appreciated.
Of course nowadays there are young females who set out to have as much uncommitted and uncomplicated sex as young men. But they're still in the minority. And we have discovered that many of these youngsters are secretly quite unhappy.
But to understand more about the female orgasm, let's go back to the start of a woman's sexual life.
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