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Originally Posted by calbts
Divinewind I wholeheartedly agree. In my opinion. A good Mistress is one who listens to what the client/sub desires and then incorporates that into a session with her own personal characteristics that make her client/sub satisfied and coming back for more - a trait that seems to be ingrained in many Japanese Mistresses and the Japanese SM culture.
One reason I will never session with an American Mistress ever again is a general holier than thou attitude from the start - "You do what I say and like and what you desire does not matter as much..and you will pay big money to do so". It is such a turn off to me.
Now I do not mean to say all are like that but I suspect many are.
From reading some reviews on here I sense some girls in Singapore have this same attitude.
It has gotten to the point that I cannot even watch femdom videos featuring American Mistresses as I find them mostly unattractive,unappealing and the entire American style of SM is not even sexually stimulating. Not to mention most of the American Mistresses are overweight, look phony, and not at all attractive.
It seems the best looking Mistresses inthe US are the native Japanese, Korean, and other Asians who move there. Of course then there is a chance they get infected with the sex negative feminist disease American woman in the sex industry have and by then it is too late.
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Bro calbts, I like the way you put it "...make her client/sub satisfied and coming back for more". That to me, is the true test whether a dominatrix is worth her salt.
Guess if ever I go US, I should look for a Japanese Mistress instead, yes?