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Originally Posted by osubken
Important thing in my opinion is to let the ladies know that there is more to the scene than just pain. Fetishes for example, makes up a big part of play. I think the ladies (and guys in some cases) who have indulged their partners enjoy how much control over their partners and appreciate that control can be achieved even without sex. Knowing that they do not have to sell themselves physically may interest more ladies to take up domination maybe professionally. Imagine half of Geylang offering BDSM instead of sex. When there is the right opportunity, I do talk to ladies (even friends) about the subject to explore if there is any interest and I have been both disappointed and pleasantly surprised.
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Bro osubken, I agree with you. If we can let more ladies know that they need not provide sex but rather satisfy our fetishes, we will be more than willing to pay for their BDSM services. I cannot wait for the day that half of Geylang will provide such BDSM services. But unfortunately, I think we belong to the minority.