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Difficulty with climaxing
Problems with climaxing can be because of medication.
Problems with climaxing are common in both men and women.
Frequently, they are just because of anxiety or 'nerves' – though they can also be because of other factors as well, such as medication.
It's important to appreciate that the ability to 'come' is readily affected by a number of things – like how the person is feeling at the time, whether the atmosphere is erotic or romantic and whether their partner is skilled and loving.
This is particularly so in women.
The most common problems related to orgasm are as follows.
Women
- Primary anorgasmia. This means that you have never been able to 'come' during your life to date.
- Secondary anorgasmia. This means being unable to 'come' at the moment, even though you have been able to do so previously.
- Painful orgasm. This is a condition where the woman experiences quite severe, cramping pain in the lower part of the abdomen, immediately after 'coming'. It occurs almost entirely at around the time of the menopause and tends to get better as time goes by. Treatment with
hormone replacement therapy (HRT) may help.
Men
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Premature ejaculation (PE). This means 'coming too soon'. It's very common – being present in perhaps 10 per cent of males, depending on how you define it.
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Delayed ejaculation (retarded ejaculation, ejaculatory incompetence). This means 'inability to come', and it's rarer than PE. Sometimes the man cannot climax at all, but far more frequently his problem is 'situational' – which means that he can reach orgasm in certain situations, like when he's on his own but not when he's in his partner's vagina.
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