[Golden question]

just have a chat with my wife about her friend who divorce his sg husband for 5 years recently and now a PR.she just got a new sg boyfriend.

my wife ask me if i am her boyfriend,will i give her every month few hundred to help her cos she is alone and rent a house

i say-it depends

my wife say- but u love her what

i say-yes i love her but u must also understand sg man also have to work hard for money what,so i ask u,vietnam man got give every month or not?

my wife say-have

i say-yes they have but after few years,they find a new girl outside then divorce so like that still love

well viet girl have the thinking of if u love a girl u have to show by giving money,but i told my wife that sg man is different cos we will be responsible as a husband after marriage

well,i think that viet girl still have the thinking of foreign husband/boyfriend must contribute money towards them or their family but in vietnam,is the opposite and acceptable for man to be lazy and not contribute