recently while chatting with my wife,she told me her younger sister was stupid.That time got one american (old man) want to marry her.he went to hcm and ask her to accompany him to the north for holiday.
she agreed but back out later.my wife say:if that time she follow him back to USA,she will now enjoy good life and not miserable pay of 100 sgd as factory worker in vietnam
their mindset is as long as can marry oversea or leave vietnam,is a good thing