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Originally Posted by shysaint
The key words is 'years' n effective 'communication' , not I 'want' u to change 'now' ...
By saying that one has :
1. to 'understand' the 'cultures' n 'lifestyle' of your Vietnamese partner , not all Vietnamese are the same however there are some similarities among them ...
2. 'inculcate' n Not 'enforcing belief n behaviors in them
3. 'allow' time for changes
4. 'room' for mistakes n learning.
Rgds
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...and along the way, spend a fortune still to build up the mindset
. If your baxa is the reading-type (chances low), go to the local big bookstore there to get a few good books for her to digest at her own pace. Some are direct translation of the English versions (e.g. Dale Carnegie's).
It's also good to 'find' a compatible, reasonable relative (sister, brother, cousin, etc.) that you can always allude to in their achievements & success in building their family life.. unless there's no such relatives... the last alternative is to use the case of successful bros in this forum.