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Old 23-10-2011, 04:37 PM
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Re: Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

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Originally Posted by tomdh View Post
there's a funny thought though that's been currently swirling in my mind:
i love my family, i don't want to hurt my wife + kids, but our relationship does need a lot of repair.
i have a lovely girl outside, who is sweet, single & most charming.

WHAT IF i come out clean and confess this affair to my wife AND try to convince her that we can work out a 'concubine policy'? (all with the assumption that i am financially able)
No woman will like this ...
some say marriages are invented by men to trap women ... i think sometimes the other way ard is true ..
cos women are the ones that need a faithful man who will support the kids with her .. as they are always saddled with the kid ..

all girls will say dun mind dun mind but sure have parts that they mind one cos it's not a complete marriage ... or relationship ..

it's how u juggle them i suppose