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Originally Posted by plmnc
earlier...i just said her bro shld move to ntu hostel becos we stay in the east and she flare up...and said he is alone here and we shld take care of him all those sort of stuff...
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I think it's reasonable when a person wants to take a good care bout his/her close relative. If she thinks that you don't treat the boy nicely, she might be pissed off. Could this be one of the reasons why she quarrel with you? If the boy is well behave, it shouldn't be a big deal letting him stay there, right?
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Originally Posted by plmnc
but nowadays everyday talk to me and my parents rudely.....i see how she treat my mother sometimes i just angry...
she openly said that "divorce la.... just give me the paper i will sign.. i don't love u anymore"...
worse is my kid..2yrs old nia ...whole day kena shouted at by my wife...
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I think she senses that you don't want a divorce. That's why she becomes bolder. If I were you, I would talk to her gently, but firmly, stating clearly that - I am willing to work hard to save our marriage but if she doesn't co-operate I will let her go without any regret -. And I will divorce her right away, if nothing's change.
I have seen quite a few unhappy marriages in which the parents always quarrel. And their kids actually are the one who suffer the most. It really hurts the children feeling when they have to witness their parents wrangle everyday. It even worse when the parent throws his/her bad mood to the kid. In this kind of situation, when you tried hard, but still can't resolve the problem then divorce is actually a release for everyone including the kid. After that, you can spend more time to take care of the kid and show him/her how much you love him/her...