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Originally Posted by plmnc
this morning wife said sorry i tot ok liao....today bring kid out with wife...now come home she started talking nonsense and we end up shouting at each other again....
my poor kid down there crying....so damn angry now.... 
and she just said lets divorce again....KNNBCCB...i really damn fed up liao.... |
bro, i am not too sure of your case, but let me try to offer you some possible causes for your present situation.
(1) Are you holding on to a job that's stable and with a pay that's able to provide her and your child an average lifestyle?
(2) Do you own the current apartment that you stay in? or are you staying with your parents?
(3) have she told you long ago that she doesn't want to stay with your parents and want you to move out to stay on yr own? (if you are presently staying with your parents)
Viet gals, like any other lady, will expect their husband to provide them with a certain level of comfy and security. They will expect that their husband be able to own a house (even if its mortgaged) and provide them with an average lifestyle. They also do not like to stay with in-laws, if possible. We , as husbands, need to work hard to provide all these basic necessities to our wife. i feel that if she's able to say `sorry', its a good sign as she knows she is in the wrong. But rising tensions between you and her is not bringing enuff goodwill to both parties. Money is not everything, but in this world, you cannot do without money. Its a sensitive issue, but we cannot hide from it. It can bring a couple together but can also break them up. Sad to say, but its true.
