[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by ferragamo

Before marriage my wife was very active during sex, willing to try everything.

Now after marriage, especially after kids - the times we have sex, it is just going through the motion - strip, touch abit, insert, pump, cum

I am sure some guys say no Fish, Prawn also good

But I beginning to feel very sian during and after this type of sex.

(already tried all the usual suggestion like role play, new places, blah blah blah)

want to find out if other married guys face this issue also

In the end do you just also go through the motion?

some days I just feel don't have this type of sex better, feel more dulan after that.

or is your thinking got sex better than no sex...

Braddah have you eliminated the possibility of her enjoying sex as much or more than before - but it's with someone else? Braddah I'm thinking she has afternoon delight while you are at the office or factory? Braddah the plumber doing some piping but not related to water or the mailman delivering something else everyday? Braddah so when you get home she is limp fish do the deed and get it over worth? Braddah you dun hire PI?