[silkypussy]

Gentlemen,

It is interesting to read all your comments. I wanted to give a women's spin to this whole thing.

Yes, I am not married. I am single in a complicated relationship. I am in 30s and had my fair share of boyfriends. During my earlier years in the banking world, I hated myself the most for dating an expat angmoh. They are all nothing but talk and show and just want an asian pussy to their list.

So let me get back to the topic of the day.

Have you all considered that your wife needs to be put in the right mood so that both of you can have enjoyable sex? Have you considered putting yourselves in your wife's sitaution?

After being married and being a mother to the kids and looking after every small requests from kids and all, it will take a super woman to remain sexy and feel sexy enough to please her husband.

I am saying for the womenfolk. We are also humans. We also need sex and have a desire. A women's sexual libido reduces because she is loaded and burdened with family responsibilities. Yes you men better believe it, you may think you have mental burden of financial issues for the family, well wake up so does the womenfolk too.

I think you should consider the following , have you thought of wining and dining your wife? Yes may be corny - but let me tell any women of ANY AGE , will love to receive flowers, go to dinner and be told how they are being valued. Try that, you will be surprised how they will react back to you men.

I am not a floozy or a bimbo. I am educated and independent and I know what I am talking about. I hear my married colleagues (women) complain and whined about theur husbands or boyfriends and even emphatize when they stray and have a little romance with another guy in the office.

So I ask you guys out there to think about us women and how we feel and I am sure you will continue to have a great sex life.

I dated a guy a few years ago. He was decent chap, well mannered, very sensitive. I hated myself for being picky and being a bitch. He was a true conversationalists. He was a great cook, very family oriented. I was young and frightened. And now I regretted that. We had great sex together.
There were times I was distracted with the pressure of work and never had a notion to be laid in bed, but he was able to make me forget about work and I opened myself to him.

Looking back, I regretted losing him. and now as I said, gentlemen, it's all in you. If you want to bring the magic back to your sex life with your wife. then date her, wine her, dine her and help her, and make her feel beautiful. Then sit back and enjoy the rewards.