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Originally Posted by silkypussy

Gentlemen,

After being married and being a mother to the kids and looking after every small requests from kids and all, it will take a super woman to remain sexy and feel sexy enough to please her husband.

I am saying for the womenfolk. We are also humans. We also need sex and have a desire. A women's sexual libido reduces because she is loaded and burdened with family responsibilities. Yes you men better believe it, you may think you have mental burden of financial issues for the family, well wake up so does the womenfolk too.

I think you should consider the following , have you thought of wining and dining your wife? Yes may be corny - but let me tell any women of ANY AGE , will love to receive flowers, go to dinner and be told how they are being valued. Try that, you will be surprised how they will react back to you men.

I so agree with her. sometimes the husband expects too much from the wife.

Originally Posted by ferragamo

by the way, I am the TS and I am facing these problems - but my wife has no work pressure, she is a Tai Tai.

She has her own car, own credit card, no bills to pay, no work deadlines. 2 maids to help look after the kids, no housework to do, no cooking to do.

I wine her and dine her in every single celebrity restaurant in Singapore already, from Guy Savoy to Joel Robuchon

Have gifted her bags/clothes from Chanel , LV - you name it, many times throughout the year

We travel 4 to 5 times a year

Yet...

so please don't assume that men 'mistreat' or 'misunderstand' our wives and purport that you empathise when the wives stray and have an affair/office romance

Wow... Seriously? Hmm. guess the problem is her then. given all the luxuries not worries yet neglecting the husband.. tsk tsk..