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Originally Posted by ferragamo
we are talking about problems surfacing many years into the marriage, and some wifes were sexually active at the start but not after kids.
and you are surfing SB - meaning inherently you are more sexual than most women already
by the way, I am the TS and I am facing these problems - but my wife has no work pressure, she is a Tai Tai.
She has her own car, own credit card, no bills to pay, no work deadlines. 2 maids to help look after the kids, no housework to do, no cooking to do.
I wine her and dine her in every single celebrity restaurant in Singapore already, from Guy Savoy to Joel Robuchon
Have gifted her bags/clothes from Chanel , LV - you name it, many times throughout the year......We travel 4 to 5 times a year
Yet...
so please don't assume that men 'mistreat' or 'misunderstand' our wives and purport that you empathise when the wives stray and have an affair/office romance
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Wow ! after doing all tat he possibly could for his wifey, she still doesn't feel satisfied !
...tis is typical of most of our wifey 2day wif LSD...empathise wif Bro ferragamo..
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Originally Posted by ferragamo
Last time when dating, touch my wife in public, will get a smile and touch me back.
Now touch her in public will let her scold , will say 'why that's the only thing you think about' or 'the children / other people are looking'
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Yes, a familiar retort frm wives of frens who were in a similar situation like bro ferragamo.. the problem wif these wifeys is tat they feel so superior of themselves vis-a-vis their HBs, and so wld get angry, scold & chide them like they would do their young sons...tis is utter disrespect & devoid of love for the man they had agreed to marry...
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Originally Posted by charisme
Mine is the other way. haha. sometimes hope he would touch me in public. It makes u feel loved knowing your man still view u as an attractive and sexy lady. still holding and touching u in public.
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Originally Posted by hickeybites
Bro ferragamo/TS,
based on what you're saying, your wife is truly very lucky! Have u considered going for couple counselling or something?
Not healthy to let this fester... hope u find a solution (other than possibly eating out)
.. although I think I may represent a small minority out there. I'm married with a kid. Admittedly my libido & sexual drive was lower in the past.... honestly I had not much interest in boys/men/sex until past my mid-20s.
I was very focused on studies & my career. After having a kid and in my 30s now, my libido is way way higher than my husband's.
And amongst several of my other girlfriends, this is the same situation for them as well. Not "slutty" and rather prudish in the past; but more voracious appetites now
~ I believe that there must be a balance (and I kinda empathize).
After all sexual intimacy is important in helping to further cement a loving relationship
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Its nice to know wifeys like, Sis zacarie, hickeybites & charisme who are those few wifeys wif HSD...still so into sex despite having grown older after marriage & having kiddies
....Their HBs are really very lucky men, if they still dun know it...
but for the ordinary mainstream wifeys which most fall into...their libido drops tremendously esp after childbirth & then as they grow older towards menopause ...we hardly see any woman abv 50 nowadays so sexily dressed to kill, wif heavy make-up and holding hands wif a man so passionately in public....like they prolly did when they were 21 & syt...they now look just as unattractive as the many ah sohs we see around us 2day who are dressed simply wif no make-up etc...cos they hav more or less lost all interest in sex...so can't really blame the LSD wifeys too...nature has caused them to lose their sexual interest as age catches up wif them... so hav to find yr own safe way of release if u really need & can't take it anymore
Yes, sis hickeybites is so rite !..."After all sexual intimacy is important in helping to further cement a loving relationship"...so w/o it, there's really no married r/s at all...the couple is just merely reverting to being ordinary frens & acquaintances so happening to be living in the same house...Lol