[ferragamo]

I am glad I started this thread. Due to the sharing from many people, I have seen that I am not alone in this problem.

And bringing it out in the open, perhaps will wake up some wives to what is happening in their marriage.

Not all men fuck around because of need for variety , there are some of us that really really actually just want to have sex with our wife, not just poke in and out then watch tv, but sensual sex that both husband and wife enjoys.

The problems start when this disappears from the marriage

Jim has given some real world advice on marriage counselling, and this is very good.

I think marriage preparation courses should emphasize to the couple, especially the wife, that good sex is crucial in a marriage. Instead of only covering finances, kids, in-laws and religion.

It is also heartening to see other guys also say that they choose not to divorce because of their kids well being. I think this is very important. Kids are innocent, they never asked to be born.

Nowadays the young couples are too self centered and too easily say 'let's divorce', without thinking of the children. This is a cursed path that our society is heading down towards.

If this thread saves just one marriage, perhaps something good has come out of the rest of our suffering. Better than nothing.