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It is very interesting reading all the feedback from the guys and gals out there. I believe there is no one right or wrong answer, as no two persons are alike in their thinking and behavior...
But maybe, to be fair to the women, sex should not be the only thing that binds a relationship or marriage together....there are many other factors such as communication, interests, goals in life etc that keeps a relationship going...
In everything we do, there is also the laws of diminishing marginal utility...day 1... best, day 2...good, day 3...ok and so on, and it takes efforts of both parties to keep the intimacy alive as years goes by, especially after the kids are born and when a mother, in her natural instinct, cares and dotes for the child...
And not to mention societal pressures on women who are working, which in the past, most women were home makers so do not feel so much stress as the women of today...
But of course, as a guy, we do have our needs as well and I guess the only way is to find the elusive mid way where both can compromise on meeting each other needs...but most often, depending on our own circumstances and factors beyond our control (work, financial situation, family background, kids, etc), it is much easier said than done...
Just wanted to give my thoughts after reading very good insightful posts from all. Kudos to TS for initiating this discussion!
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