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Originally Posted by Rickey
If parents really love their children esp their daughters, i believe they shd be brave enough to tell them in a matter-of-fact way tat SEX is very IMPT to keep their man satisfied & helps pre-empt them frm straying to another woman...oso to tell their daughters tat they shd continue to show their HBs their love & respect even after marriage...believe tat being responsible parents, we owe them a duty to help prevent a divorce frm ever happening in their marriages...esp when we ourselves hav oredi encountered the dangers & know all too well the pitfalls of marriage relationships...
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I love my kids but i would nvr tell them tt sex keeps their man frm straying. Cause even with sex provided at home. man somehow will still find reason to have an affair outside. like many here says. more variety. sick of just the one at hone.
sex is impt. but it is not the main reason for keeping the marriage alive. if the husband is just in it for sex. i would tell them to leave ur hubby. Make sure he really do love u very much for who u are not just in bed. no women should be subjected to being in a marriage that is based on sex.
i would tell my sons. love ur wife. treat her well. Making love is a bond between the both of u. but nvr ever make use of her just to fulfil ur sexual needs. it is pure disrespect to her n urself.
Marriage is like a building. True love n communication is what keeps it going, the foundation for it to remain strong. making love is the exterior, the designs to beautify it, bringing sparks to it. the kids are the interior. U add them on to ur life when the foundation and exterior are completed. U want to protect them. When the sparks(exterior) wears out. Make an effort to paint it again. Bringing the sparkles back..