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Originally Posted by silkypussy
Have you all considered that your wife needs to be put in the right mood so that both of you can have enjoyable sex? Have you considered putting yourselves in your wife's sitaution?
I think you should consider the following , have you thought of wining and dining your wife? Yes may be corny - but let me tell any women of ANY AGE , will love to receive flowers, go to dinner and be told how they are being valued. Try that, you will be surprised how they will react back to you men.
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Hullo sista, you think we guys haven't tried everything in the book to try and rekindle the romance? From dinners to couple spas, I remembered reading that woman needs to be paid in order to have sex but the form of payment comes in many ways, hence it may come in the form of a dinner, flowers etc...after everything end of the day lie in bed what the response....too tire... yet stay up to watch those silly korean dramas till late in the morning...how not to get tire!!!
And before any women here pass judgment on the monster here, let me say from day one I have been the one to be most actively involved with my kid life...i should know cos i was a stay home dad for 4 years since my oc gave birth...from day 1 she is those sort who takes a hands off approach to everything (she even admit it, come to mommy for fun but daddy for studies)...even till today I am the one that keeps the house in order...first to wake up so as to prepare my kid to school, make the beds (noticed its plural not singular)...drive everyone to school and work then head off to office, after work rush back get dinner fetch kid..weekend...clean up the house...ok she does the occasional cooking during the weekend and the laundry every other days (washing machine not hand washed)...would you believe it even school shoes she dump inside washing machine to wash...
Every time I try to initiate sex, she would give those typical reactions....let me tell you even try to neck her or kiss her...she gives those disgusted look as if I am trying to rape her...don't even talk about groping her breast, she will say no respect for her body...no fingering no necking no petting...so tell me ladies how am i suppose to initiate? How would you feel if you are put in such a position when you try to initiate with your other half...dejected, ego bruise, upset, depress?
So in this case ladies, if you are not keen to have sex, what then for your partner? You are forcing him to be celibate, is that fair? So he starts to stray, then you kpkb...then what do you expect? He is human he is man...no respect to those monks...but you think everyone of them really that pure?