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Originally Posted by charisme
Whatever rocks your boots dude. u have your way of teaching your kids and i have mine. have a good day!  |
Standard modern female response.....
"The world is the way I want it and define it, reality and my vows be damned. He has to keep his vows, I don't.".
This is exactly the problem.
Once again lads, you did not marry to be a monk. If your wife is refusing sex without a valid reason it is grounds for divorce, full stop.
I encourage you to go to counselling....much of what happens there madam Charisme would not approve of but then that doesn't matter.
The family court will send you to counselling whether like it or not unless you both agree the relationship is too far gone ....and that can happen if you let resentment build up for too long.
Men marry for sex, not friendship or companionship. We have lots of friends and lots of companions its just that they are all guys and most of us are not interested in sex with guys. So we try and find a lady that doesn't give us too much of a headache and that becomes the one. Oh-Oh jim, you're such and MCP blah, blah, yes, yes, yes, the truth is a surprise but that is life. You can see the world as it is and deal with it or you can be frustrated for-ever, its your call.
Cheers,
Jim