Aiyah......
It takes a woman to take the extremes of a discussion....sigh.
Sex is the glue that holds a marriage together. If there is no sex you are not husband and wife any longer, you some sort of business cum child rearing partners.
To all the IDIOTS that say sex is not all that matters.....once again unto the breach...., what's next, a statement that water is wet? This is what passes for wisdom these days?
We are talking about bros, myself included that, when there was any sex, it was once every 3 months. And this is between bouts of drought from between 6-15 months. Yes, you heard that right, married to a woman and she REFUSES TO HAVE SEX for a period of 15 months. There is a scientific name for that condition:
"BULLSHIT".
Now, for the one or two ladies who have husbands that:
1. Would rather play around then enjoy the home playground,
2. Just want to get it over with and finish,
My heart goes out to you. I can't relate to behaving like that to my wife at all. I think my wife is more sexy now than when we married, its just that she's lost her sex drive and replaced it with Korean/Cantonese videos. Its fine for her but a NIGHTMARE FOR ME.
There are some bad men out there to be sure. Narcissistic wienies that think the world revolves around them and only them, Bill Clinton and Barrack Obama come to mind for example. To think that guys like that are the majority is nonsense.
Its like this:
No-sex, No-marriage. No one marries to be celibate, its ridiculous.
This kind of wraps it up for a man in the modern world:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sXit0FTxa1U
Cheers,
jim