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Originally Posted by Darina
Yes I agree a marriage should not just be based on sex
However, it should not be sexless at all which is kinda the situation I'm in right now.
Yes my self-esteem started to take a really huge blow. Does he find me unattractive? Am I too fat? Does he not find me sexy any more? Anyway, I hv found that the answer is not me.
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Originally Posted by charisme
Seems like both man and woman suffer from sexless marriage..
I'm sure u still are attractive in your own many ways. a pity he doesnt appreciate. Good that u found out thr reason is not u. Gain back your confidence. let him see what he have missed out in his sexy wife!
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Seems like we are all talking about the same problem...a sexless marriage or 1 where there's hardly any sex frm our partners...its abt our Hbs or wives who are not responding to our sexual wants or needs...evading us, turning us away frm them or they turning away from us respectively ...for various reasons best known to themselves...many of which we hav oredi shared in this thread...tis really good tat we hav all come to a understanding & consensus abt tis problem
Really empathise wif all bros & sisters here who are affected by tis problem...yes, its heart-wrenching & heart-breaking to know tat our partners dun seem to appreciate all our efforts, all tat we have done for them & taken us for granted instead, treated us wif disrespect & hav chosen to go the other way & turn their back on us
... causing us to make detours
Th'ru all sharing our experiences here, am very glad tat sis, darina, charisme & zacarie now understand tis problem frm the HB's perspective
.. just as much as we oso fully understand & empathise wif them on their problem wif their HBs or ex-HBs ...my heart goes out to them...thankfully most or all of them are now happier wif new partners
...in fact, none of us deserve tis type of behaviour frm our straying & unco-operative partners...so now we shd work together, share & help each other find solutions to tis problem esp for those of our young frens, relatives or family members entering into marriage frm falling into tis same problem trap which seems to repeat itself...hopefully in the process oblitering the word divorce frm the dictionary, so tat all of us wil be able to live a happily-after married life...one tats truly till death do us part...i thank all who hav contributed to tis discussion & i hav learnt quite a few things frm u guys..thank u !