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Originally Posted by starm
Whenever my desire comes in the day...she will like set a rule, sex only means during night. In the day time, children are around. Come on..I am doing in the room, lock the room. She always said wait night..When night comes, either one of us very tired sleep first or she would rather dived into doing household chores, wash clothing, or doing her facial, remove pimples until 1-2am then only come in room.
Lately, complaining me have no foreplay blar blar...I have really enough. Isn't this suppose to be both sides blame?
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it is very frustrating for me as well most of the time. I mean come on i am not an alarm clock which can be tuned to be 'turned on' at night. At times i would love to have some intimacy in the day time. Not when in the wee hours of the night after kids are asleep, after finished watching tv and then come into bedroom. By then chances are either one will be too tired.
I have come to realise rather than waiting the whole day time for a moment which may not happen, i would be better off diy myself when i have the urge.
I do not know about the rest but for me, i would love to have intimacy moments with wife most of the time even if i dont have the urge. Just love the feeling of being together, the closeness to each other. Nowadays is like i have to make the first move if i 'want' it. She wont be initiating anything anymore. She said that if i make her aroused she would then want it.....huh?? thats a morale beating kind of statement....what happened to my sex appeal to her?? no more??