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Originally Posted by Tomthefucker
it is very frustrating for me as well most of the time. I mean come on i am not an alarm clock which can be tuned to be 'turned on' at night. At times i would love to have some intimacy in the day time. Not when in the wee hours of the night after kids are asleep, after finished watching tv and then come into bedroom. By then chances are either one will be too tired.
I have come to realise rather than waiting the whole day time for a moment which may not happen, i would be better off diy myself when i have the urge.
I do not know about the rest but for me, i would love to have intimacy moments with wife most of the time even if i dont have the urge. Just love the feeling of being together, the closeness to each other. Nowadays is like i have to make the first move if i 'want' it. She wont be initiating anything anymore. She said that if i make her aroused she would then want it.....huh?? thats a morale beating kind of statement....what happened to my sex appeal to her?? no more??
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Originally Posted by Tomthefucker
and here i am sitting in front of my computer, having waited the whole night in vain and she's asleep already...
Anyone else facing the same and awake at this hour?    |
Empathise wif u too, bro tomthefucker...u are joining the long list of bros here having similar problems wif the wives...As we grow older, things like tis is likely to happen.. only tink is we need to take preventive or stimulative measures if we wanna maintain or enhance the r/s..
Dun tink u hav lost yr sex appeal to yr wife, bro...tink none of us guys do...only tink is for some wives, we hav to make them appreciate & show their love for us...in yr case, i see there is still plenty of hope for u...tink she just needs more stimulation now frm u...talk to her, arrange something romantic tgt, anything u can tink of tat she likes & i tink she wil come around...a matter of time...at least she did tell u...if u make her aroused...she still wants it...she hav not rejected u outright...only tink is u need to make more effort than usual...i wish u all the best in tis & hope u hav many hrs of sexual bliss like b4
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