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Originally Posted by Tomthefucker
it is very frustrating for me as well most of the time. I mean come on i am not an alarm clock which can be tuned to be 'turned on' at night. At times i would love to have some intimacy in the day time. Not when in the wee hours of the night after kids are asleep, after finished watching tv and then come into bedroom. By then chances are either one will be too tired.
I have come to realise rather than waiting the whole day time for a moment which may not happen, i would be better off diy myself when i have the urge.
I do not know about the rest but for me, i would love to have intimacy moments with wife most of the time even if i dont have the urge. Just love the feeling of being together, the closeness to each other. Nowadays is like i have to make the first move if i 'want' it. She wont be initiating anything anymore. She said that if i make her aroused she would then want it.....huh?? thats a morale beating kind of statement....what happened to my sex appeal to her?? no more??
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Same here Same senario plus she say you want it you must treat me nice and i realise what she meant (get boss around by her while she sit there either watching tv or surfing the net watching drama or playing on the EyeFung aka Iphone) Duhz and like you it is always late nites if or if it ever happens just to get boss around more eg. Go brush your teeth or Go prepare for it or need to get me in the mood..... (The best is once i went to brush my teeth but tummy complain so i told her need to release she said pls shower after that okie i did come out of bath room she already enter lala land)
Like in another treat a bro mention and here i will mention my wife is just not into it from after we tied the knot move out stay alone for almost 6-8 yrs no kids she always say not ready...... the love making session was worse than before marriage 2-3 times a mth...... till not 1 or 2 time depend could be mths... Like you bro i perfer DIY now but sometimes need content and again kana pin "Keep watching those until your brain corrupted only know want to do and do"...............
My sharing jeez.......