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Originally Posted by SparkleDoll
Seeing guys complain about this problem with their wives just make me real sian. That's because I'm the high and dry wife with a high sex drive. We fucked like bunnies before marriage and now 2 years in, my husband says he has no sex drive at all. Help!
He always says how mentally tired he is from his business that he has no mood for anything else. He finds sex too draining on the energy. I know myself and actually told him when we were dating that if a marriage has no more sex, that is kinda the end for me. Sex is not the ONLY ingredient in a marriage but it's sure as hell a very important. He laughed then because he felt there was no way he will not want sex. However, after marriage, he has literally settled down so much he just wants to use the time and energy for other things. Agrrr
I have tried talking, initiating and always end up feeling rejected. When ppl ard us joke about how lucky he is to have such a hot wife, I wanna rip off someone's head! What's the use of being hot when I am probably gonna have to live like a nun for the rest of my life. I asked him if he was not afraid I will stray. He gets angry and say there are other things in a marriage more improtant than sex.
Frankly, I get very fustrated and have thought of having FB or even divorce. I don't want to live the rest of my life like this. What am I doing wrong here? Can too much of a good thing make a man take for granted? I did not let myself go, I have a habit of sleeping in lingerie every night. Everytime someone hits on me I get angst and wonder why I got such a bad roll in the marriage dice. Why the fuck doesn't my husband want me.
Well, this long rant only proves that this issue rans both ways. Regardless of gender. May you guys find a solution soon and may I have the strength to remain faithful.
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Hi sparkle doll my sentiment to u your husband will miss out all this fun sooner or later i guess. Being faithful in non-sexual marriage is harm very very harm i guess it play both way frankly your husband sound very like my wife she always say this "in marriage and family sex is not everything" It is make up of communication blab blab etc etc. But it is part of it maybe a small faction in it. Frankly those whom really find the right partner i would say is really really lucky. Majority of cases will be either one is high the other is low in sex...... Straying mean you already gave up why not try alternative like using or getting the help of toys?
For me i resort to my hand and hmmm porno help so that it and than.