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Originally Posted by hbengkok
I also have the problem. Sometimes my penis don't stiff (limp). After some foreplay, my penis is get erection. But after sometime, it become limp  . A bad comment or response from my sexual partner, will directly make my penis doesn't work anymore.
When I can have a full erection, premature ejaculation's never hapen (not a problem in this situation). Only erection problems. I try viagra, but not very helpfull.
Yes maybe must do exercise like Sam said. My cholesterol level's high, maybe also have effect on this. |
Seems like you and I facing the same issue. I'm extremely sensitive towards my partner's feeling and mode during intimacy. If there is any disruption or negative feeling in me or my partner, my sexual desire will evaporate in a few seconds, it's frustrating indeed.
Besides having a helathy mind and physical body, to overcome or prevent this frustrating situation, I always try to arrange to have sex with my partner in a decent place with pleasant surrounding that makes us feel safe, secure and protected from external interruption including switching off our cell phones. Timing is another important factor to consider which you would have experienced a better performance in the morning after waking up from your bed or after taking a good nap in the afternoon.
Having sexual intercourse activity consistently subject to individual capability either on a daily basis, for 4-5 times a week, 2-3 times a week or only once a week would develop a satisfactory sexual experience for most in the longer term. Conceptually, I find it no difference from physical exercises, we need to build up our stamina in order to enjoy fully the most fulfilling love making exercises in one's lifetime ... Obviously, making love with different partners would yield different results - need to be selective sometime to minimize frustrated sexual experience, unfortunately this includes spouses and girl friends.