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Originally Posted by weekendgo
This thread raises the goosebumps for a recently married person. Thank you TS for beginning this thread. That hormonal thingy, it sure freaked me out. But it seems that there are some sisters who had children, but still want sex.
This thread kept me up for the better part of the night, wondering, what happens after we achieve a child? Will she be tired? Will she abhor the thought of my touch? I cannot live without good satisfying sex. Will I join the bros here lamenting sex with their wives or rather the lack of it? Or, will I be lucky? 
As I type this, my wife is asleep next to me, after a great session of the horizontal conga, inspired by some of the more lurid tales of this forum. Glad was I that I dumped my ex, a limp fish, for this sexy siren. Maybe there might be other things like how she pampers me, she is faithful, a great conversationalist, etc. that mattered, but I married her with the intention to keep her all to myself before anyone else realises it. Note to single bros out there: that was the best decisions of my life so far. Dump those limp fishes even if they bite. If those gfs are off sex, even before it began, it'll never get better. Analog's advice of RUN! Luke, Run! comes to mind.
Enjoying it while it lasts. gloating a little too... I still have it... |
LOL... good for you and lucky you.
I get the impression that she reads SBF with you?
I think importance is respectful communication. If you have that in your marriage, most things can be resolved. :-)
Although, not on purpose, I already start discussing with my gf about women losing their libido after childbirth and as we get older. She is horny now too and our love-making is part of cultivating our relationship, part of establishing our connection. Hopefully, having talked about it and planted the seed in her mind, it'll be easier to broach and discuss next time. * cross-fingers *
Anyway, I urge bros who still have horny or receptive partners, to broach the subject now. Tell them what you have heard from friends and that you worry your healthy sexual relationship may deteriorate. Discuss with them.
If you can't even have a proper discussion about this now... think long and hard about your relationship. (not just about this discussion, but whether you have communication in your relationship)