While it is true to a certain extent that Love is about Accepting and NOT about Expecting or Asking your partner to change for you...
I have also seen many times, how "complacency" have slowly consumed love within relationships and create the space for the dreadful "D" to occupy.
I guess many will agree when I say humans are "mostly" creature comforts that continuously seek beautiful things in life.
So be it a husband or a wife, i believe we must all put in that extra effort to make ourselves look good and attractive.
While some may say that there is only "that much" that one can do to look good, especially guys... but I personally know of some husbands who make that special effort so that their wife's remain attracted to them... and so keeping the flame in their marriage burning...
my two cents worth...
Now if you share my sentiments that Attraction does play a part in spicing up your love life... start working on yourself and slowly influence your better half.
Afterall, we're getting older by the day and there's no turning back the clock... So let's try to look our best when we can!