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Originally Posted by naemlo
No matters how horny I am... if I know she is married and still with husband, I will try to avoid her as in sex. Maybe I am stupid but I just can't get pass her husband. So it is good not to know too much personal details.  |
Bro Naemlo, earlier on in our relationship, I struggled with this too ..... I wanted to break off with her when I learnt that she is married. However, I lack will power. I still continued seeing her. She does make me feel better especially during the times when I had problems with my gf. Eventually however I became embroiled in this affair. And our relationship got deeper.
Even now - I do admit to feeling jealous. I am the third party in her marriage and still feel jealous - ridiculous right?
Yes. I also have guilty feelings. FB's husband is still oblivious.
Break off? The most logical and common sense thing to do. But affairs are seldom like that. It driven by some kind of emotional need which I can't explain. Its easier said than done. Its easy to moralize also as we are conditioned to think that marriage is sacred.
Anyway ... its one day at a time for me and my FB. She is generally happy with her marriage but it lacks something (which I happen to fulfill). Conversely, me as well. I am generally quite satisfied with my gf but obviously something is still missing .... affairs and matters of the heart ... sigh! very complex