[MrYoung]

bro, first of all.
ask yourself what is love to you.
lustful sex? mutual understanding with trust? or a moment of passion?
from what i read, becos not really detailed, you had your little bro do the thinking.
well, i am not saying that love cant exist with big age gap. but lets face the truth.
with a big age gap, purpose and perpspective of life is going to be different.
understanding and the want in a relationship is also different.
what she seek might just be the thrill with the new guy or u were her thrill.
you said she told you she had feelings for you. but have you testify what kind of feeling? love? fun? lust? curiosity? so many more...

she told you she was possesive, well, guess she is not only possesive but selfish too.

if i were you, i will get my wife back unless she is already happily with someone.

Love before marriage is passion
Love after marriage is bond.
and that bond can and suppose to be built together 2 to 3 years after marriage when the passionate love is gone.

just my share of opinion.
brothers please don flame if i offend anyone.
GamXia