[alan0338]

Originally Posted by hiretuja

I am in mid 30s. In a 7 yrs of marriage with a beautiful daughter.

(Sidetrack a bit: For the record, I didnt marry my spouse out of love, but out of responsibility. Technically an arranged marriage. Cos I bombed her. Mum forced me to marry her, so bo pian. I was out of love since 2001 when the gf i loved most left me, so no more after that, not even my spouse, until now )

And because my relationship with my wife was already on cracks and hard to be fixed, I divorced my wife.

so u trying to say tat ur marriage is not a blissful one and tats the reason u tao jiak and divorced ur wife tio bo...

I was devastated.

1. What shall I do now? Should I move on? Or should I wait?

given ur character of abandoning ur wife and kid for a piece of pussy, u should just move on just like wat u did previously ...

2. Is it my fault for having high hopes on her? I was god damn pissed because indirectly I felt she was the catalyst that made me divorced my wife.

she is not the one who divorced ur wife,but u are, so stop pushing all the blame on others ... IMO, u deserve it ...

I need advise. Please.

have a kid and some more mid 30s liao still dunno how to think, serve u rite ...