Hey guys,
I join sammyboy like very long ago liao reading forums and some threads really make sense
My whole life I've never cheated in my relationship before and I think maybe my divorce was just due to my own fault.
12 years ago I met a girl and we got married a year later and then got our own kids (a girl and a boy). I work and work so hard until I own my own retail outlet and going to start another shop at city square mall.
Suddenly! My ex wife told me we're just not suitable to be together... ...at first I thought she had found another guy (guys usually think like that I think) that's why she wanted to divorce with me. She just told me that she wants to go clubbing and have fun and that with me around it's hard for her to do that and she got married too early.
Now we've already divorced and I've given her all rights to both our child. Every month I'm paying her $1000 maintainance for her and 2 kids.
She could settle down 12 years ago and go take the wedding vows together with me but regret it later so how to believe people any more?
I don't think I'll fall in love anymore so I want to join you guys and to make more friends.
During these few years with her I practically only have 1 friend and nobody else. She always makes a fuss if a guy or girl talks to me so I stop contacting them (bad ideal) years ago
So sick of my life when all of a sudden want to talk to somebody also that difficult. But thanks all for reading it. It really takes the pressure I'm feeling right off my chest.