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Originally Posted by Wizard123
Thanks for all the replies.. One of it is to look at myself in the mirror and ask if I have been a good husband or daddy.. Frankly I do not know.. When the kids were younger, I bring them to park, swimming , ride bicycle and movies etc.. Now they are more interested in their computer games.. As a husband, again I do not know..I do help out in housework when I was doing normal office hour.. But now I do rotation shift, I am tired. I also do not want to touch her as she is fat n made no attempt to do anythIng about it. Also not willing take a job so that I can quit the shift work n do a office hour with lesser pay.. With these, I see her also no mood for anything.. Any woman comments .. It will be interestIng to see thing from the other side..
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My heart goes out to you. I gather that u do want yr marriage to work, just that she's no longer appealing to u. I think it all begins with the relationship itself. She's probably feeling very distant from you after all these yrs of neglect. (U did say last sex was 2008?) Try having a better relationship with her and perhaps she may open up to u. Tell her it's important to have good relationship between spouses as u grow older so that U can rely on and support each other in old age. Try to engage her in more outdoor and sporting activities. Slowly introduce her to exercise programmes whereby both of u can participate together on the pretext that it's important to keep fit as u age. Try to hv more intimacy and sex to further boost yr relationship. Counselling might be helpful too. The worst thing in life is a miserable relationship with someone under the same roof. Do work on it ... good luck