[justawife]

I really sympathise with Xyberduke .... it is indeed very sad that things come to this and you are very right, the one who is suffering is your kid... so moral of the story, dont let it get this far... now really have no choice but to live day by day... but please try to do something worthwhile if you can... the very least you can do is to show your kid how you came through all this, set the best example, make your kid proud of you.

To all others, think carefully before marriage..