[Xyberduke]

Gentlemen,

Live with this fact, even if you're not married.

Before marriage, be faithful to your girlfriend, be devoted, and be very open about sex and try everything under the sun to have great sex.

After marriage, continue that in more intimate ways as you overcome her pyshological barrier with marriage (previously, your wife may not be sure if you're serious).

After kids, face the fact. Someone needs to look after the kids and provide parental care. You have to play a part too. BUT, guys are guys, if you contain all your sexual desire and your wife is tired after a day of looking after the kid, you'll soon grow tired of your wife and also create unnecessary tension.

Be intelligent, be very careful in planning, be very cautious about giving away your hp numbers (always keep this rule - "your handphone is a device that you don't mind sharing with your wife or leaving it in her hands" to gain trust and happinesss), have fun outside, don't go home or bath in an hotel for $20 for 3hrs if you smell of anything, and bring a fresh change of clothes with you.... if you have sex outside, always rest for an hour at least and be prepare for surprise sex when you reach home with your wife.

Have fun outside to fulfil your sexual desires, but never neglect your family so stay home during weekends and screw around on weekdays evening....

woman cannot stand a man going to such places, so never let them find out... but do know that there are lots of host bars sprunging up in singapore and they're almost full daily with women throwing thousand dollar flowers on them to get their nipples sucks, breast grooped.... and some women are only earning slightly more than a thousand and yet spending hundreds on gigolos at these hostbars.

there're more hostbars fullhouse daily than the ktvs here in Singapore. Don't believe, go and see for yourself.