[justawife]

Hi 5ag1_Boar,

Thanks for your message. That's why I came here to find out reasons why men stray and I guess this forum has a lot of folks with "real-life" experiences.. cos that's the problem with me. I really find it unacceptable, whether emotional or not, to me its just a betrayal.. simple as that. My principles are I stay committed and I expect my partner to be the same... You can call it selfish but in the modern society, women contribute to the family as much as men if not more so isnt it right to expect the same sort of treatment? Anyway, having said that I do recognise that men has 2 heads so I am just wondering whether there is really anything a wife can do to keep their man... I want to try as hard as I can if eventually he still strays, I can safely say I tried...

BTW, the thing about staying attractive well .. people age naturally right.. when we get to 50s, really must go for Botox etc to keep our husbands meh?