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Originally Posted by justawife
Hi 5ag1_Boar,
You can call it selfish but in the modern society, women contribute to the family as much as men if not more so
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from your this one sentence I will say that you going to have issues with your husband
perhaps you don't realise it, but you are probably projecting a "I am superior" type of attitude in your relationships (this can apply to your marriage & family/friends)
sorry to say this, most men want a feminine woman, not a Saw Phaik Hwa
on the topic of why 'the other woman' usually is less accomplished, not as pretty nor as good body -here's a quote from Jun Cruz:
"At the end of the day I don't need a bright woman to argue with, I just want a pretty girl who will shut up when she needs to shut up."
I know we are living in the 21st century, blah blah blah blah, but as your question is how to keep you husband from straying, then here is the hard truth. He wants a woman to be there with him, not someone to boss him around and tell him how he is always wrong and she is always right, shake her head at him, sign loudly and walk away....