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Originally Posted by justawife
Really? I thought just projecting an "I am equal" type of attitude mah... women also get chances to cheat wat but we exercise control ... cos we are more level headed (ok, at least I am) I think about the consequences of breaking up my family, how hurt my husband will feel and my children etc etc... But I would say the trigger point for affairs for men and women are different. For most men, all it takes is a sexy attractive girl, for a women to stray must have "hweeling" wan...
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Sometimes can't think in this way.
All men are different. Everyone, be it man or women, is individualistic.
So with your husband, you also can't think it in this way. The more you stereotype, the more you'll push him away. Try to understand him with his character and his given situation. Don't lump him with other guys.
So in a sense, if in doubt, go with a HTH talk with him. This is also to show him respect, and to do away with all the assumptions and accusations.