[vietboy]

Originally Posted by demondemon

hi guys

need advise here

i have a VB fling for say close to a year
know her from ktv,
be her chauffeur and pick her up/down,
thats how i got her

got go HCM visit her twice
she do not work in ktv anymore, she is learning manicure back home

i do not give her any money or allowance
juz some small gifts and surprises like how i xian any sg girl

recently, she ask me for 4mil viet dong, about 240sgd
not a big amount, but i told her, i will give u but this is the last time i will give u money

i dunno is she crying or wat or felt insulted,
she juz remain silent and hang up the phone
i called back, she picked up, the atmosphere is weird, so i told her
ur mood is bad, i'll call u tml

what shd i do ? bros
am i too much and went overboard?

U did the rite thing. Dun let them be used to getting $$ from u. Once, there will be twice, thrice n more to come. Maybe u can explain to her say u wan her to be independent dun always ask others for money. But on the other hand, if she still learning manicure n not started working, how can she have money?