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Originally Posted by becca

my married exbfs seem to always talk to me.. after they have been married for a few years.. just suddenly decided to talk to me again.. or we bumped into each other in the streets and started being in contact again..

many times, the guys end up wanting to have sex with me.. sian of friendship ending up that way.

recently again, bumped into my ex from more than a decade ago! exchanged numbers.. then everyday will whatsapp me.. sometimes whatsapp me the whole day while he is at work to chat..

in the beginning will just chat like catching up.. then start talking abt family.. kids.. and then problems with the relationship between wife and him! but once they reaching home.. will say busy and can't talk anymore..

i jokingly laugh and say because wife around already issit.. he also ok lah, never deny.

suddenly.. our agreement to meet for dinner.. became he suggest we meet for movie.. then became suggest we go across the causeway and for no reason mentioned abt if stay until too late then stay overnight!

somehow just feels like something naughty is up his mind or am i too sensitive because of past experience??

It is pretty obvious, isn't it. He asked you out on pretext of friendship, get close, kiss you, one thing lead to another and ditched you before his wife found out.

Unless u don't mind to become his fb/fling, don't get involved with one.