[sgiceboy]

Originally Posted by fixxxer

Glad to see this thread. At least able to pour out some sorrows. Me too married for 04 yrs and just had a kid last year. Everything went downhill after that. At the beginning i too thought the childbirth took the toll on my wife and she needed time to heal herself mentally and physically but coming to nearly a year since my son arrived things haven't changed. We haven't had sex for 2 years due to it being ever since she got pregnant i didn't initiate it to respect her feelings and her cycle of becoming a mum. Before marriage, i was banging her non stop with all kind of passion. She even had a abortion before we got married. Iv'e tried talking to her but nothing seems to happen. I respect the fact that marriage isn't all sex, which is why i walk my own path now from Fuck buddies to Fl's. I'm still man and i ain't no saint. We've decided to stop with one child and i don't see myself having any action with her. Life still goes on even though its painful at times. Gd day my brothers \m/

Bro,

u are not alone, take heart