sis winterwhite, i can feel you. cos i too came here for the same reason. but it was not for this nsf guy.
i dont know how it started for you and your boy. but for me, me and my nsf exbf, we were constantly texting for the first month or so. and we actually spent some quality time together over the weekends. (i'd let him rest once he gets home on friday nights, and we will head out on sat. for sundays, i leave him alone to do his own things and he would pack and leave for camp around 8pm). things like these went on for about 2mths.
Until there was a week, he got confinement. I said it was fine, i will wait for him for another week. But when that week came, he totally changed. he become super quiet. Asked him if anything bothering him in camp, he replied no. asked him if anything bothering him at home, he too replied no. and the next few weeks went on, with lesser texts.
From about 50-100 texts a day... it went all the way down to say 10 texts? and no matter how many times i asked if everything's okay at camp. he just replied with a "ya". so i just assumed that it just inconvenient to share, cos its classified information (u know la.. its always those sensitive information in army).
2+ months, i told him im starting to feel insecure about whats happening between the both of us, and i really want to salvage this relationship, he only replied he need some time to think abt things. and just a lil over our 3rd month anniversary, he broke the news - he wants a breakup. cos he feel he cant commit at all.
just a three months thing. now thinking back, was that even a relationship? or was it just puppy love, infatuation of sorts? gosh... idk.
as much as i heard about my guy friends who got dumped by their girlfriends, cos they found better guys while their boys are slogging, sacrificing their 2 years... i am the one who got dumped instead. *shrugs.
