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Originally Posted by Blast88
There is 1 chinese saying' Xiang jian how, dong zu nan' , staying together there are bound to have conflict due to different living habit, I believe bros out there whose living together with parents have experiences on these, fortunately for me my wife have always been understanding & give in whatever she can & I also discovered that vietnamese have a rooted culture of respecting the elderly & very good table manner, she always address my parent 1st before eating her lunch or dinner.
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Yes agreed with u tat staying together bound to have some conflict. Tats y 1 party have to be the giving in party and try to change. As our parents are alreadied in their 50s, 60s, its hard for them to change. So we have to be the giving in party n change. We have to let our wifes understand this. I'm glad my wife is understanding and always giving in to my parents. Now, my parents also changed to more n more accept her.
Yes, agreed with u again on tat they have strong culture of respecting elderly. I remembered when my mum said something that is not good to hear, my wife just keep quiet. If for local modern gals, sure talk back. Like the case of my auntie n her DIL, now they sort of ongoing cold war.